Ethics is knowing the difference between what you have a right to do and what is right to do.
— Potter Stewart
Have you ever faced a situation where you had to make a decision that didn’t seem to have any clear-cut answer? Consider these scenarios. You want to invite friends to go to the movies and you only have two extra tickets, but you have three best friends! Who would you ask? You’re about to take a test in science class, and the teacher inadvertently leaves the answer sheet on her desk where many students can see. Would you quickly copy the answers like many other students do or would you go take the without looking at the answers? You buy a new sweatshirt and the cashier mistakenly charges you $2.70 instead of $27. Do you point out the mistake?
These situations and others like them can involve an ethical dilemma.
Ethics is defined as moral values or ideas that govern someone’s decisions or actions. When we make decisions based on our ethics, we use our personal or shared values as a framework to determine what is good and/or bad. This process often requires moral reflection as we make evaluations and judgments about responsibilities, rights, duties, values, and principles.
Although ethical questions involve or imply the words 'ought' or 'should,’ but the answer could involve moral conflicts with several possible outcomes.
For example: Should individuals who donate kidneys be allowed to choose who their organs should go to?
You probably have opinions on this question, based on your experience, ideas, or principles. But there is not a clear-cut right or wrong answer. Most ethical questions do not have a clear-cut right or wrong answer. That is, it is often a Right vs. Right (As opposed to Right vs. Wrong) Decision.
What are some of the values that we apply to making ethical decisions? Think about a person that you really admire! Someone you look up to because of their actions, the way they treat other people, and the choices they make in their life. Take a minute to reflect on some of the adjectives you would use to describe this person. Maybe they include such words as honest, friendly, fair, safe, responsible, and independent. These characteristics might be important to you as they reflect your values. What are some other values you might have?
Importance of authority, respect for privacy, courage, kindness, cooperation, loyalty, service to others could be other examples.
Choose a couple of your values for further reflection. Write a sentence or two about your top values.
For example: Honesty is important to me. I have had a couple of experiences in my life where people weren’t fully honest! Things didn’t always turn out so well! So it’s very important to me to be honest and have other people be that way, too!
Making a decision based on values can be challenging.